Sharing a dissenting opinion is one thing, but when that opinion is that another is overreacting or just looking for things to complain about, especially towards the people directly effected by the situation, that isn't acceptable. Policing another's reaction and telling them what is or isn't appropriate in a situation like this is a silencing tactic.

Without the "I simply think some people are blowing it out of proportion," the clarification would still be necessary that many girl-wonder members and Steph supporters are in this community and very understandably take this comment personally.

And it may also be worth taking Nefrekeptah's earlier comments, further down into context. This may be the towards the top of the post, but it's towards the end of the conversation.