I'd wonder if it wasn't a power thing too; women are 'supposed' to be supplicant in sex and therefore in a sexual situation men are always "winning". Powerful men, or a majority of men in a patriarchal society, may feel (subconsciously?) threatened by an undeniably powerful woman (Queen, President, Empress, Tower of Psychic Ability..) and therefore introduce a strongly sexual element to her history. Thus, if they met her, they would win because she would allow them to penetrate her.

It is rapey and gross, though, so I hope my armchair is full of bad psychology.