There's a whole lot of victim blaming coming from your comments. I'm getting this sense from what you're saying that if Babs does not live her life extremely cautiously following the shooting, then the next time she gets shot, it's completely her own damn fault.

Not everyone who has been a victim/survivor of a tragic event needs to live their life cautiously trying to avoid another tragic event. Victims don't have to live their lives defined by the fear that something might happen again. And if another tragic event were to happen, it would NOT be their fault. The onus is not on the victim to avoid being shot, the onus is on the perpetrators out there to not shoot.