Well, no, not just in real life. When victim-blaming comments are made about fictional characters, it's really not that far off from comments real people have made about other real people. These attitudes are pervasive.

Not only that, but just because TKJ is a part of Babs' storyline doesn't mean that her current storyline needs to be about her being defined as a victim. What if the next gun shot that comes at her does not come from her frontdoor? What if it comes from walking down the street? Does she need to do things like constantly look through a peephole in order to fit a proper "I was once victimized" profile? How long does she have to stay a victim?