Didi's actually there because she and Sandra tried to be bi-curious together and in there embarrassment at their spectacular failure, Sandra ran out before Didi remembered it was Sandra's apartment to begin with.
I know, I know "context is for the weak" and all, but between that and the fact that the very tanned girl Sandra's with is a she-male she walked in on her ex-boyfriend boning, I figured even context would still be "wtf" enough.
It's considered pretty offensive in trans community, actually--it's mostly used only in (fairly exploitative) porn or with bitter irony. Outside of those contexts, it's widely considered a nasty slur.
Just so you know for the future, to trans people this is about as loaded as a land mine, and about as pleasant. You're fortunate that you've never had to think about it until now, so if you start avoiding (as I assume you avoid other sexual or racial slurs) it you should be fine.
Sometimes this comic frustrates me, there's endless of cockblock for poor Gary and a lot of will they and won't they stuff for Sandra and Didi (although the way it ended was reasonable in a way).
Oh and Zee is a horrible character, horrible character.
Meh I don't know; certainly some things she does are very, very dickish but she keeps the chaos moving towards new directions and I do feel that we are supposed to see some slow but deliberate character built upon her personality.
I certainly do feel some apprehension about her character but considering the other negative reactions one normally sees directed towards Zee keeps putting me off of wanting to get rid of her completely.
I used to dislike Zee, but she has really grown on me since she started sincerely trying to help Gary. She felt genuinely sorry and remorseful when she accidentally (thought she) broke his action figure and she tried her best to fix it, and she refused to get laid with a beautiful woman for his sake. I think, despite her flaws, she has developed into a good and caring friend.
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Date: 2011-06-01 02:31 am (UTC)I know, I know "context is for the weak" and all, but between that and the fact that the very tanned girl Sandra's with is a she-male she walked in on her ex-boyfriend boning, I figured even context would still be "wtf" enough.
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Date: 2011-06-01 03:13 pm (UTC)Just so you know for the future, to trans people this is about as loaded as a land mine, and about as pleasant. You're fortunate that you've never had to think about it until now, so if you start avoiding (as I assume you avoid other sexual or racial slurs) it you should be fine.
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Date: 2011-06-01 03:14 am (UTC)Oh and Zee is a horrible character, horrible character.
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Date: 2011-06-01 05:06 am (UTC)Motto. The comic would be so much better without her.
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Date: 2011-06-01 11:39 am (UTC)I certainly do feel some apprehension about her character but considering the other negative reactions one normally sees directed towards Zee keeps putting me off of wanting to get rid of her completely.
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