I OBVIOUSLY have no problem with her breaking up with him. I have huge problem with the way she broke up with him. I am sure Jay may not be a very good boyfriend, but there is big diffrence, between ambitious woman, that wants to achieve something and cold, mean, careeristic (I hope that word exists) asshole. I'm sorry, but there is no way you can excuse this kind of behavior. By all means and purposes, Jay is here acting pretty politely, yet she treats him like piece of crap. How about giving him better explanation then "Look, you are a loser, I rule, fuck you."
I agree about "nice guys" thing. I just think if these "nice guys" were really dumped for such reason, why trying win these women back? How about finding women, that are actually nice too?
And you know what? I know nobody is gonna stand behind me after this, but I don't think anyone would anyway (it's okay, diffrent opinions and all), but I am just gonna say it: I honestly don't believe, that if it was Jay talking like this to Joan, any of you would defend him
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Date: 2012-05-03 04:29 pm (UTC)I agree about "nice guys" thing. I just think if these "nice guys" were really dumped for such reason, why trying win these women back? How about finding women, that are actually nice too?
And you know what? I know nobody is gonna stand behind me after this, but I don't think anyone would anyway (it's okay, diffrent opinions and all), but I am just gonna say it: I honestly don't believe, that if it was Jay talking like this to Joan, any of you would defend him