How long have they been dating? Because while I am all for honesty, you don't have to disclose all your secrets early on. Yes, once you've established that it actually is going to be a serious long term relationship you ought to disclose stuff, but it is okay to keep some secrets early on. Also, yeah, ease the person into a big disclosure. Preferably do it in public too, a date in a nice restaurant, a picnic in the park, that sort of thing. It reassures them that there are people around if they need them (and also basic human nature is not to raise a big fuss in public too).
Otto should let this relationship go though, use it as a learning experience, he done screwed up and she is too freaked; it is going nowhere.
I guess I kind of get it, in a very naive learn-from-your-mistakes kind of way. Instead of hiding who he actually is like he did with Ana, he's going for straight forward honestly. Still though. The hell, Otto?
Anna is awesome. She's adorable and I like her writing. I especially like that she hits a lot of boxes we don't see very often in terms of race, age and body type.
Thanks. Ever since he got the Richard Spencer haircut* and joined Hydra, I can't help but see Otto as one of those Alt-Right types that shouts "debate me" at people.
He seems like such a shoe-in for inclusion and I'm curious how they'll handle the character's origin and whether he'll be a hero or possibly a villain/traitor.
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Date: 2019-04-24 01:34 pm (UTC)Otto should let this relationship go though, use it as a learning experience, he done screwed up and she is too freaked; it is going nowhere.
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Date: 2019-04-24 04:56 pm (UTC)Otto: "Perhaps if I can use a mind-wipe drug...let her forget so we can start over...."
Anna: "In what world is wiping someone's mind a logical alternative?!"
Otto: "You really didn't talk to Parker that much, did you?"
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Date: 2019-04-24 04:47 pm (UTC)"You told me to be more forward and approachable!"
"That does not mean tell her who you are on the first date! Good Lord, no wonder even the Hulk could outwit you!"
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Date: 2019-04-24 05:02 pm (UTC)Anna is awesome. She's adorable and I like her writing. I especially like that she hits a lot of boxes we don't see very often in terms of race, age and body type.
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Date: 2019-04-25 08:45 pm (UTC)*Not that the bowlcut did him any favors.
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Date: 2019-04-25 12:34 am (UTC)" Five. And the Red Skull has an unfair advantage. "
His assertions of Superiority are becoming unthinkingly reflexive.
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