Batman and Robin #4 preview
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Fallout from their encounter with new foe NoBody begins for Batman and son. ComicBookResources has the preview. 2 pages behind the cut.
The Wayne's have a dynamic discussion (I know that you know that I know....), which leads to (once again) Alfred showing the World's Greatest Detective that his missed something.


The Wayne's have a dynamic discussion (I know that you know that I know....), which leads to (once again) Alfred showing the World's Greatest Detective that his missed something.

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Date: 2011-12-12 03:00 pm (UTC)More on topic, I think the first step to Bruce being a better parent is unlearning to be Batman, and as we all know, will never happen.
On another note, this makes me miss Dick/Damian as Batman and Robin. I don't know if it's the fact that Dick is more relaxed and has a sense of humour, or the fact that he's not related to Damian, but I've always felt Dick had a better handle on Damian than Bruce currently does. o.O
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Date: 2011-12-12 03:20 pm (UTC)That might work for me if Damian were the first child that Bruce had had to work with as an "in loco parentis" in stead of the FOURTH! Yes, each child is different, but this is not an area Bruce has NO experience in.
On another note, this makes me miss Dick/Damian as Batman and Robin
Agreed, and I wish that this were referenced. Quite so pointedly ignoring what Dick and Damian achieved as Batman and Robin seems a disservice to both of them.
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Date: 2011-12-12 06:23 pm (UTC)With Damian, he KNOWS he is Bruce's biological son and feels more entitled to him than probably the other Robins do. I also doubt (and anyone is free to correct me on this) that the other Robins expected him to be more a father to them, whereas Damian does. Therefore he expects Bruce to see him more as his own flesh and blood, not as just another troubled kid he took in who needs repair, and therein lies the disconnect.
Bruce may have *some* experience with raising a child, but he hasn't really learned to connect with Damian on a more personal and emotional level, and I think--from what I've read so far--is where the problem lies. This isn't to say he isn't trying, cause he is. But he needs to do more than just acknowledge that Damian is his son and that he needs to be there for him, he also needs to be emotionally available and to him as well. Damian needs to feel like he has a father that he can confide in and rely on. Right now he has Batman for a father, and Batman puts his war on crime first, Damian second. Hence my "he needs to unlearn being Batman" comment. Right now he doesn't *see* himself as a mortal man with a beating heart inside of him. He sees himself as a powerful threat that criminals fear and has dehumanised himself as a result.
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Date: 2011-12-12 06:54 pm (UTC)They are not just parterns or sidekicks, to him they are his kids. The relationship with Dick (pre reboot and damned if i will believe they have done away with that) is very much father and son, so is the relationship with Jason (emphasized post reboot). Tim, pre-reboot very much saw him as a father. When he adopted the other boys he hesitated, not because he didnt care for them, but because he felt like they might think he was trying to replace thier parents, but once he told them, they whole heartedly accepted. No, they definately view him as a father.
Damian on the other hand iagree... he feels that since he is flesh and blood he is entitled to role as Bruce's son. even more so than the other robins.
I agree that Bruce isn't h andling Damian right. He's going from the belief that he was raised in a strict, yet at the same time very free enviroment. he was very much mommy's little boy and got whatever he wanted. so Bruce feels like he has to keep a tighter reign on damian because (a) it's what he is used to and (b) its what he never really had... if that makes sense.
Bruce as "I am the night" batman when he is with the kids is what happens when a writer gets him wrong. yes, its in character to be harsh and overly critical and down right domineering with them, but that is not ALL thier relationship is. he's not perfect. no one is. but when he is, for the most part, depicted as the guy who doesn't know how to be a father, then the writers are getting it wrong. Batman is first and formost the man who wants to ensure that other children don't grow up to be him.
with Damian we have a completely different dynamic to what he is used to. he is not used to being the not grimm one, and having to hold back his Robin (that sounds dirty...) i honestly think Bruce's problem is that he is not sure HOW he should handle Damian. hence the erratic gestures "Don't go out tonite because I said so" to "Here Damie, here's a puppy, boys like Puppies!" to "You are my son and I am trying to protect you" to "You are my son and you do what i say" this is a situation Bruce has never been in and i don't think it has anything with Damian being his blood kin, and more to do with Damian just being a different type of person than he has had to interact with before.
that said, again, he should sit down with Dick and or Alfred and talk about how best to handle Damian.
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Date: 2011-12-12 09:26 pm (UTC)Nevertheless, I do stand by what I said with regards to Bruce's parenting style with Damian. Whether or not this is due to faulty writing, however, is subject to debate.
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Date: 2011-12-12 09:45 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2011-12-13 12:10 am (UTC)But again, we've seen that Bruce forms emotional attachments* to children quite easily, especially those who in some way need his support.
* Which I mean in only the most wholesome of ways.
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Date: 2011-12-12 03:50 pm (UTC)the problem with Bruce here is that he thinks Damian would only understand a firm hand. Even so he is trying to show that he trusts him and trying to give him somethign to care about by giving him Ace (we all know that's Ace:)
so Bruce isn't incompentant at parenting, he's just having a harder time dealing with Damian than he was with the others. Though i do believe he should have a conversation with Dick and i don't know... go over notes....?
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Date: 2011-12-12 04:46 pm (UTC)Will always love Bruce, but not a fan of his (repetitive) relationship with Damian or the kid himself.
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Date: 2011-12-12 06:21 pm (UTC)Frank: "MY WIFE AND KIDS-"
in unison: " ARE DEAAAAD!"
and they hug it out to subtle piano music.
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Date: 2011-12-12 04:02 pm (UTC)but i do not agree that it was Bruce's "fault" Damian was coming off as a Petulant brat.... BUT here is the Rub... ic ould ALSO see the scared child that ALfred saw in these few scans. (though the artist fudges a but in drawing Bruce, he drew Damian very well) Bruce needs to understand, if he wants Damian to grow up normally (well as normally as ANY batclan member can grow) he needs to stop looking at him as mr. little league of assassins and more like his son. honestly what Bruce needs to do is talk to Dick, and Alfred and compare notes. Also maybe have Alfred tell him when he is being a batdick.
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Date: 2011-12-12 05:04 pm (UTC)http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jWHHsdE_oQg
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Date: 2011-12-12 05:23 pm (UTC)i just think writers don't get it. if there is anyone Bruce should be good with, it's children. yes, with his own he can be rough, but it is not for lack of caring. Another one of my favorite moments is in Young Justice, the cartoon, where Dick is troubled about something and instead of going out on patrol, he asks Dick if he wants to play a game of basket ball, or in redhood and the outlaws where he stays in witha sick jason to watch a movie, or when they have a boys night in watching a movie. Or telling Tim that the gift was nice, but that all he wants for Father's day is to spend time with him. yes, Bruce can be a dick (though i beleive Morrison did a lot to fixt that) but he cares. He's not a BAD father. i just think once he gets used to being a father he takes ona kid that is the complete opposite of the last one. it can be challenging. :D
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Date: 2011-12-12 05:24 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-12-12 05:04 pm (UTC)never cared for bruce as a father, myself. suspect i never will. just don't see the appeal.
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Date: 2011-12-12 05:24 pm (UTC)i just think that people don't "get" bruce's personality sometimes. Morrison and Snyder do alot to make up for that.
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Date: 2011-12-12 09:04 pm (UTC)heh look down, that's pretty much what i just said :D
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Date: 2011-12-12 09:14 pm (UTC)i think it's a mistake only as far as how appealing i find him. i don't like him as the runner of a daycare center, i prefer him as a loner with a few close friends. but i know the bat fandom loves that he has 35785479043 kids.
just not my thing. :) that's why i keep trying and failing to get into bat books every time i get excited by one of the bat movies, alas.
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Date: 2011-12-12 09:27 pm (UTC)But still, I think can understand preferring to read about him on his own. I mean, he can have the kids and have the ability to be good with kids without it being showcased in every story. The loner is the guy criminals would see, even if he's got what seems to be a psychotic kid with him.:-)
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Date: 2011-12-12 09:03 pm (UTC)but yeah. that is what he is at his core. that's why Kids are never really frightened of him. Because they know what he stands for, defending the innocent, and kids like them. Superman is cool, and yeah he's a great hero, but batman would sooner die than let harm come to any child.
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Date: 2011-12-13 12:22 am (UTC)i'm cool with other ppl finding this great and brill, for realsies. it's just not my thing. i prefer him solo. i love reading him solo. :) or with the league, as i found out recently.
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Date: 2011-12-12 09:07 pm (UTC)there is a time and a place to play the BatGeneral, but when he gets over come in that role, that is when makes mistakes.
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